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The Lady in Langley

Lowell Sheppard • July 8, 2020

There is a woman who resides on the third floor of a care facility in Langley, BC (Canada) whom I care about deeply.


Following several weeks of complete isolation in March and April of this year, she was moved from her semi-independent living quarters to the care facility, a floor above.


Whether accelerated by the isolation or simply caused by the passage of time, she is noticeably more advanced in her loss of memory than she was three months ago.   


Thankfully, she seems to be slipping into the blissful side of 'dementia' (it took me a few moments for my fingers to pound that word on my keyboard) rather than lingering half in, half out of the darkness of fear and paranoia.



She is amazingly lucid at times, as she was a few days ago on Canada Day, when she was asked to pray at the gathering of seniors on her floor. Apparently, she waxed eloquent and said all the right things.


Other times, she seems to stammer and stumble at, not just trying to find the words, but also correlating her thoughts.

Lady in Langley
Her name is Greta Mae and she is my mother, and I owe her a lot! Not simply the obvious, having brought me into this world, but she and her iconoclastic mother led me to dream and see fear as a doorway rather than a wall.

It was the image of her greeting me after crossing an ocean that is a compelling image for my Pacific Solo challenge. I am crossing an ocean to see my mother.

But yesterday, my eyes moistened after my daily chat with her, which was strained and difficult. I came off the call with the realization that I may never see her again. When I first envisaged crossing the Pacific Ocean by the time I am 70 (five years from now), my mother appeared strong and invincible. And I knew that if she did fail, I could just hop on a plane to Canada, which I did twice a year anyways to see her.

Now with the travel restrictions by governments and curtailed flights by airlines, not to mention the public prejudice against locking oneself in a tube for many hours with strangers, I have my doubts about whether I will see her again.

It was in this frame of mind that I read a story sent to me of Juan Manuel Ballestros who sailed across the Atlantic to be reunited with his parents. It took him almost three months, and he finally arrived a couple of weeks ago

Atlantic Crossing

His story is inspiring at various levels. Not least being that the old adage is true "where there is a will, there is a way".


Well, I have a way too. It is also a boat, and it got me thinking. Hmmmmmmmm. 

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